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Letter Details: You Threw It All Away For A BOY!! BOY !!!!!!!

Category: Family Quarrels

Description: she was my best friend. she's only a year older than me - how could we not be best friends? we've had best friends that turned out wrong and bad and ended up on the wrong side of the track. so when we share secrets, its usually with each other.

and then she met him. and then i was stupid enough to lie to my parents for her. she was my role model, in my mind, she never did anything wrong. I was blinded.
and when i turned against her, she turned against me and we drifted like there was no tomorow.
and even though i'm stronger without her, you know- why did she have to be so stupid. here we are in the present. in the essence of her stuipity. she threw it all aaway for a boy.

Dear You, (and you know who you are!)
You were my best friend, the person i ran to when my other best friends did something to me. We talked alot, about the future and how things would work out.
How could you throw your life away for a boy. Think about it. Think back to the beginning. Who were you? Now, do you even know anymore? You follow him around, skip school, lie that you're at work when you're really out and the minute you get home, you slip your mcdonalds uniform back on. mom knew, and still you looked at her and lied in her face. she asked you over and over again. did this not sound like you should fucking fess up about now? god!
Yes you love him, but you're grades started to fall and if you were mature enough and could prove to us you were able to handle a relationship and school, you would've kept your grades up!!!!!!!!! you were a 90%+++++ student. what the hell are you now? You're not even going to the uniersity you wanted to go to. you dont even know what you want to do with your life...anymore. ur gonna get married but how are you going to support yourself? WHAT IF HE DUMPS YOU?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
god i miss you but i've learned to live without you and do things by myself. i'm stronger and i learned to grow. you're still so immature. you just play whenever you want, hell you have a little brother at home who looks up to you and he's in grade nine. what are you gonna do!?!?!? he fucking looks up to you!~~ even when i tell him not to and try to point out everything you've done, i know somewhere deep inside that he still looks up to you. I just wish you could see. you dont do anything anymore. chores or talk or anything. you jst do whatever ur stupid heart desires. while the rest of us have responsibilities to uphold. i dont even know what i'm gonna do when i leave. can i even trust u with him?!? i'm so scared ur gonna screw him up like you.

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Send it!	22-January 2006
Sge Sounds Like A Bitch

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
what an idiot (the writer i mean)

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
Keep it. In regards to the other dont send it comment, why are you calling them an idiot? Thats not fair. They're saying about the fact that their best friend threw away everything, that theyre lying and that theyre now not the best person they could be. That theyre dropping out of school basically. So whyre they an idiot? Tell me that.

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
its shit

Send it!	22-January 2006
very heart felt u shud tell the person how u feel

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
are you a lesbian, or just a bitch? Why can't I give this letter a 0?

Send it!	22-January 2006
You guys are completely insensitive. they obviously care (or cared) about this person, and you should stop being such asses, you (the writer) should tell them how you feel. Perhaps then then they'll listen.

Send it!	22-January 2006
the writer clearly feels strongly about her pals welfare, however i suspect i detected a hint of wistfullness to the letter - of times gone by.it si normal for the group to thin down as couples pair off - it is always that way. the friend is free and seemingly happy..but the writer is tethered with responsibilties and so comes across a little tiny bit resentful...be there topick upthe pieces when it fails - both you and she are smart so you will be OK in life

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
Even though your hearts in the right place I doubt this letter would change your friends mind.

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
Maybe you should leave her alone. If I were the person who recieved this letter I would basically tell you to fuck off and mind your own business. Let her live her life.

Send it!	23-January 2006
send it, sounds like she needs a wake up call

Send it!	31-January 2006
ummm dude i just wasted a minute of my life with this bullshit letter. u should just find another lesbo friend and get a dildo then commit suicide together u dirty skank!

Send it!	5-February 2006
i dunno but is she your sister? you said you told mam not you told your mam....if sje is i have a sister to and i think you should sit her down and explain/describe your feelings

Don't Send It!	21-February 2006
people need to make their own mistakes

Send it!	18-March 2006
you should change it up a little bit...dont make it sound so harsh...and THEN send it.

Don't Send It!	20-March 2006
deal with it. she'd moved on. she dosn'd want you to hang on her.

Don't Send It!	20-March 2006
kinda dumb

Send it!	21-March 2006
i bet it was all the males who said not to send it...lol! they just dont understand..howz bout thinking with ur brain for a change boys!? hahahaha!

Send it!	23-March 2006
yes she should send the letter and that girl that is with that boys should think that school and family are more important than boys oh and family last for ever boys are whateva

Send it!	23-March 2006
Send it! Then forget about her cos you'll never be friends again, but you might just save her from herself!

Send it!	25-March 2006
Jesus, you are such a fool. First and foremost, living for someone else is pathetic. Period. Second, you haven't got real problems, so stop whining like a little bitch. You want to hear a real problem? I'll tell you what a REAL problem is, how would you like to have your brother in the hospital in a coma due to over-dose? They don't think he'll live to see the end of the month. How's THAT for a problem you sad little coward!? You make me SICK. Go ahead, send your pathetic little letter, see how you change the world. People don't change hunny, they can only do one of two things; get better or get worse, and getting worse is all the rage in our egocentric, self-serving, averice-driven society. Sure, send your stupid letter, watch your friend fall apart even after you pour your heart out. There aren't any good people anymore you little puppet, there are only bad people with their own motives. Manipulation, drugs, solicited sex, alcohol, and hate are the only things people care about today. Our generation is doomed, get used to it and move on.

Don't Send It!	26-March 2006
You sound a wee bit jealous.

Don't Send It!	13-February 2007
If you're so concerned about your brother, YOU step up to the plate and become the role model. As for your sister, let her learn on her own that she is responsible for her own actions and no-one can escape the laws of karma.

Send it!	20-April 2007
send the letter, but rephrase it. say it nicely. you're her friend, and frankly, I can see that she needs help. it's up to you to bring her back to her senses. you need to make her realize that it's just a boy, and she doesn't need to waste her life for him. and honestly, if he does love her, he wouldn't let her throw away her dreams and life like that. talk to her, but I say be careful with your words. she actually needs you now more than ever.

Send it!	18-August 2009
she NEEDS to know, for her brother's sake. and for your sake and hers. even her boyfriend. just sent it, better yet. have a nice talk to her about it.