Letters Never Sent - Scathing Truths Never Shared with the Recipient

Letter Details: Incest/Molestation

Category: Family Quarrels

Description: Found out recently my ex-husband, father of my daughter, molested her for 6 years, from the time we divorced to the time he remarried. From approx. age 4 to 10 or ll? I'm not sure how long. My daughter just told me she is 18 now. She has asked me to keep it a secret, I want to explode.

Mike,

During our divorce you tried to prove me UNFIT!!! Because of depression???? You incestious child molesting fuck. I wish Jess told me everything, you are right you would have never saw her again. That's how you got her not to tell me. You said, don't tell mom or she won't let me see you. You said you can get into trouble. That child has protected you all these years, she still is protecting you. She has asked me to keep it a secret and believe me I want to do anything but..... you can imagine how bad I want to go after you and ruin your life, you have ruined our daughters life. She is effected, she is not functional, she has no direction, she has an eating disorder.... and all these years you blamed it all on my depression. I was the safe one, I was the safe parent, she could cuddle with me without getting touched the wrong way.
I asked her why she didn't tell me because there were many times I gave her the opening to tell me (good touch, bad touch talks) I even said to her even if your father did it, you need to tell me because I can't protect you if you don't tell me the truth. She never said a word. She told me recently when I would talk to her about those things she would get scared because she thought I knew.
I knew you were domineering, I knew you were egotistical, I knew you were not right, but I didn't know you were an incestious child molester. I wish our daughter would give me the choice to talk to you so I can tell you what I think and tell everyone that you know, she is ashamed not only of you but herself, she doesn't realize it isn't her fault... you ignorant fuck.
You should pay for all the counseling she needs, to say the least. If it were up to me you would be in jail or have a civil suit on your hands, not for the money, but for the humiliation. You don't deserve such a loving beautiful daughter. I hope the lupus that you have makes you drop dead real soon, and you had better make sure that the two insurance policies that you had in her name when she was little are still in her name, that is the least you should do. Also, if you had a conscience, fuck the insurance policies, write an apology and stick one of your many guns in your mouth and blow your brains out, do the world a favor. I'd do it but I am a good person, law abiding, and you are not worth the effort. I am only keeping our daughters secret because of the fear I saw in her eyes when she saw how I reacted and when she heard me tell her all we could do. It was like looking into her eyes as a 5 year old all over again. I hope you are proud of yourself. You obviously don't have one bit of compassion for your only child, you only care about yourself, and that has always been your way. GOD will see that you get what you deserve in the end. Sure Mike keep going to Church, make sure you confess this sin, but I'll tell you what, I really don't think it will matter how much you confess or go to church.... you will burn in hell. May you live a horrible live and suffer a miserable death.

My god, I even made sure this child had no babysitters becasue I wanted her with someone I trusted.... you fucking loser. I hope your wife finds out somehow... you deserve to be a lonely old man. I HATE YOU with every part of my being.

This might be anonymous, but I hope you happen along this site and see this email. You will know it's about you.

Sharon

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Send it!	20-January 2006
i left a longer comment in my own letter to you called to shari65 Writer's Response: I have responded to you also...

Send it!	20-January 2006
Hell yes! Send the letter! And send a copy to the courts, the sheriff, the police, your senator and representatives, and his family (if he has any that speak to him). Don't let this scum hide behind the guilt he has caused his own daughter to feel. Personally, I'd like to see the son of a bitch strung up by his balls to a tree, with a hundred-pound weight strapped to both wrists. Castrate his sorry ass and stuff his dick down his throat until he chokes to death. Writer's Response: Unfortunately my hands are tied. My daughter told me after she had turned 18. She is 19 today. I agree with you 100%as far as what you personally think should happen to him. I wish my daughter felt she could stand up to him and press charges. But she won't do it, that is why I vented on this site. I had to let it out somehow. He has a very big family, a very religous family, and my daughter is afraid they would hate her, not believe her etc. Right now, I think she needs to get used to the fact that someone else besides her knows about this. That is a scary thing for her.

Send it!	21-January 2006
Send it for god sake. This guy should know. In fact send it to his wife boss and friends as well, that way he can have a fucked up life. SEND IT!!! Writer's Response: Can't do it, I will not betray my daughter. She told me not to say anything. Believe me that it kills me not to say or do anything. Being an adult, she has to do it herself. If she were a minor, he would already be in jail.

Send it!	22-January 2006
you need to send it so he doesnt do this to any other kids. you need to protect them too. Writer's Response: He doesn't have the opportunity to do this to other children. (I said the same thing to my daughter and that is what she told me) He had liberal visitation rights with our daughter.

Send it!	22-January 2006
Send the letter to a judge, and your lawyer, and especially DYFUS! The Department of Youth aand Family Services exisists for things like this! Writer's Response: If my daughter was under 18 at the time she told me, your damn right I would have sent it out. I wouldn't have even bothered with this site. I would have called the police.

Send it!	22-January 2006
If this is true: Send this fucking stupid ass molester straight 2 jail make him fuckingn die kill him your self fucking do something Writer's Response: I wish...

Send it!	22-January 2006
tell the cops, perverted people like her ex don't deserve a happy life, she should send it to him and bring in the police. Writer's Response: Yes she should... she should press charges. But she still protects him.

Send it!	22-January 2006
If i met this motherfucker i'd kill him myself. Send the letter, tell the police,do anything. RUIN HIS EXSISTANCE. make him miserable beyond miserable. Make hime hat himself for all he's done. Sick bastards like this don't deserve the air they breathe. Writer's Response: I agree. This will come out somehow, someway.

Send it!	22-January 2006
What an ass. Send it to him.

Send it!	22-January 2006
I was molested by my father for almost 10 years. Please tell your daughter that she needs to do something about this. That is the first step. Then she needs to really talk about it with someone, get angry, cry, it doesn't matter. She needs to let it all out. I feel for her. Please tell her if she needs to talk to anyone about this my e-mail address is airforcepride22@yahoo.com She can e-mail me anytime. Jessica Writer's Response: I think my daughter is so scared I might do or say something. I haven't seen her for two weeks. I just found out that she has been staying with her paternal grandmother, her father and her boyfriend. She won't answer my emails or anything. I don't know what she is thinking, but I'm not the bad guy here. I want to help her, not hurt her. She just doesn't realize it yet.

Send it!	22-January 2006
Yes send the letter!! Send it to the police as well. Tell your daughter if she protects him she'll probably end up harming other innocent kids as well. He could be doing this to some other little girl. Not to mention if he and his new wife have any kids they will most likely be put through the same hell as she has been put through. Please make her see that by keeping the secret she will hurt someone else by not going to the police with the information. She sounds like a good kid that has alot of heart by wanting to keep this secret because of her creepy Dad, but she needs to know what will happen if she doesn't. Writer's Response: I have told my daughter that she needs to think of other kids. (she told me he has no opportunity) And not to be mean (to his wife), but he has been unable to have kids with his wife. THANK GOD !!! I'm trying all I can to get through to her. It was a big step for her to even tell me.

Send it!	22-January 2006
Hell yes! Send the letter! The motherf*er can be killed and then even rejected in hell coz he was so fing stupid. Send this 2 everyone you can find and ruin the b****ds life! He deserves to die!

Send it!	22-January 2006
SEND THIS LETTER!!! Send it to him, his mother, his wife, his friends, his BOSS, EVERY FUCKING PERSON HE KNOWS! Send it to the police, Child Protective Services, a lawyer - actually send it to every fucking lawyer in the book so he cannot get one because they will have seen the letter before he contacted them and will have been tainted. They will not be able to represent him if he calls them in need on the case. SEND THIS LETTER!! You have no idea how many other kids he is doing this to NOW! It may be too late to save your daughter from his shit, but maybe there is some other kid you CAN SAVE NOW! I cannot stress this enough! SEND THIS LETTER TO THE WHOLE FUCKING WORLD! USE HIS NAME AND HIS PICTURE!

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
Needs grammar revision. Writer's Response: Excuse me, when I wrote this letter I wasn't worried about grammar simply because I was just venting and didn't think anyone would be so petty as to point out simple mistakes. I wasn't in the mood to edit.

Send it!	22-January 2006
SEND IT SEND IT SEND> what sad twisted disgusting creep would do such a thing. SNED IT TOO EVERYONE..I WANT TO KILL THAT MAN

Send it!	22-January 2006
HA HA HA HA HA I HAVE SEX WITH DEAD CHILDRENS GOHSTS! SOMETIMES WHEN THE SOAP IS SMALL ENOUGH, I LIKE TO SWIPE IT INBETWEEN MY BUTT CHEEKS AND SAY "BEEP CREDIT CARD ACCEPTED!"

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
I cannot believe you are considering not telling the police.The man is a dangerous paedophile and must be stopped at the very least for the sake of others - the longer you stay silent the greater the risk of another young life being ruined. talk to your daughter and see if this line might empower her to speak out with you. Writer's Response: I believe this is an isolated incident. However, I didn't believe anything like this would happen in the first place. If my daughter had told me before turning 18 there would be something I myself could have done. Now only she can make that decision. I've tried talking to her about this and she can't do it as of now. Maybe in the future. There are no children that he comes into close contact with at this time.

Send it!	22-January 2006
SEND IT!!!!!

Send it!	22-January 2006
send the letter the miserable bastard he is

Send it!	22-January 2006
Honey, you need to let it all. Don`t let him get away with it no one should. My step father did and till this day I regret it. He should of went to jail but he didn`t. To make you and your daughter feel better do something about it. Though she may say no now. When she knows he cant hurt her anymore she would feel A LOT better. Writer's Response: I am hoping you are right. I will stand by her when and if she ever decides to confront him and/or file charges.

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
That's so horrible. I pity the girl. Poor, poor girl.

Send it!	22-January 2006
send the letter.. confront him.. ruin his life.. the sick ******* doesn't deserve to live.

Send it!	22-January 2006
Your daughter doesn't want you to tell anyone because she is embarrassed and he probably made her feel like she asked for it or deserved it somehow. That's how they work. She needs to realize she was the innocent one and did nothing wrong. Then I would ruin his life by telling anyone that would listen. Even if no one believes it they will always have the slight doubt and maybe he'll never get the chance to do it to another child. Writer's Response: Yes, you are absolutely right. That is how they work. She actually thought he might have forgotten because he never talked about it to her. I told her.. No honey, he's hoping you forgot. Anyway, I need to get her to talk more before she can fully understand that the responsibility of all of this is soley on her father's shoulders. Somehow, someway he will pay for this. I strongly believe this...

Send it!	22-January 2006
fucking bastard. i feel deeply for you. i send you all my heart and i hope that bastard gets his in the end. Writer's Response: Thank you

Send it!	22-January 2006
That guys does derserve to drop dead for what he did to your child! Send it and hope he cries his eyes blind so he can't see his beautiful daughter anymore. He is a looser, moron, idiot, and a horrid horrid person. Send the letter so he knows what a dipshit he is. and hug your girl, she needs it. hugs are good:) you are a good mommy. Writer's Response: I've have hugged my children everyday of their lives and told them that I love them, still do. He knows what he did, and hopefully he is waiting and wondering when the bomb will drop and everyone will know about him. I hope he lives in fear.

Send it!	22-January 2006
That's disgusting. What a piece of shit. Writer's Response: I agree

Don't Send It!	22-January 2006
send it. he's gotta know he's a fucking bastard if he did that Writer's Response: I'm sure he knows...

Send it!	23-January 2006
sod sending the letter just post his full name on this site.......really, do post the FULL name Writer's Response: That is tempting...

Send it!	23-January 2006
fookin send it to the motha!

Don't Send It!	23-January 2006
send his ass to jail Writer's Response: Wish I could

Send it!	23-January 2006
you know by keeping the truth there are other little girls you are putting in danger do not let a promise between you and your daughter give that animal a chance at another little girl please tell the authorities please get that peice of crap off the streets look at every little girl you see by not tell anyone you are putting them all in danger Writer's Response: I am not putting any little girls in danger. There is nothing I can do. I can go to the police all I want, but I need proof. If she is not ready to press charges there is no proof. I am not responsible for this man's actions and never will be. He does not have contact with other children. If he does it's limited and with their parents around. (family gatherings)

Send it!	23-January 2006
Make the stupid fuck pay, he might do it to others. ^_^ And make sure jess knows he didn't have the right at all, they know how to manipulate children very well. Writer's Response: Yes they do, especially if it is your own child. That is why I don't think he is a great danger to other children at this point. He may be an asshole but he's not stupid.

Send it!	23-January 2006
Definitely send this. I would. He did that to your daughter. That's horrible.

Send it!	24-January 2006
send the damn letter. this man does not even deserve the lowest pits of hell. do anything you can to make this scum of the underworld wish for death that will not come. make him experience a life of embarassment and torment and never let him live it down. once he is in jail, stop by or call every day and say to him, "you are a sick fuck and everyday i see you i am filled with joy because of your misery" followed by giving him the finger.

Send it!	24-January 2006
o my fucking god send this motherfucker fuck up his whole fucking life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 fuck him up!!!!!!!!!1 fuck him!!!!!!1 fuck his family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 fuaker!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 omfg kill this motherfucker right now!!!!!!!!!!!! motherfucker if i met him he be ded right now that motherfucker wat a sick basterd!!!!!!!!11

Send it!	26-January 2006
You cannot let child molestors run free! Who will his next victim be?! TURN HIM FUCKING IN!!!! ARE YOU INSANE?!! YOUR DAUGHTER DOESN'T NEED TO BE SEEING THIS MAN ANYMORE!!! HE IS ONLY HURTING HER! Writer's Response: She's 19 years old and doesn't live with me. I didn't know until she was 18 years old, just a few months ago she told me.

Send it!	28-January 2006
In this last month I sent a "friend" of our family to jail. He hurt not one of my babies not two of my babies not three of my babies but all four of my babies. They trusted and loved him, said they didn't want him to go to jail. I let them know what he did was wrong he needed help and he needed to be where he couldn't do that to anyone else. They understood. They even changed their mind about him going to jail. Said they were glad they knew they wouldn't run into him after he went.I did promise them I wouldn't tell anyone else we knew. When something is wrong we need to put an end to it. To stop it from happening. To tell someone (the police). She was silent and it continued now your silent it will happen again. Show her how to be powerful. Send him to jail. It is comforting to know he can't do it in jail. I too am law abiding and have had fantasys but I am releived to know the bastard who hurt my babies is looking at 12 years for each of my children that is 48 years of punishment now before he burns in hell. He don't have the freedom to move about the earth and have the pleasures that freedom offers. See yourself in his wifes shoes doesn't she deserve to know? Make a new promise to your daughter promise to keep other children safe. Show her it is ok to tell its ok to stand up for herself by telling the police. Please. Your letter is alot like my situation. It could be another mothers situation. predators aren't picky about their prey. Don't allow the possibility of someone else feeling the way we do. The police will beleive you and her. You guys can even have a say in how much time and help you want him to get. They will understand why you waited. It is not too late. Don't make it too late for someone else. Writer's Response: I'm sorry to hear of all your family has been through. My daughter is not ready to confront anything or anyone about what happened. I hope she will be at some point in the future.

Don't Send It!	29-January 2006
Keep it and call the police instead

Send it!	30-January 2006
Damn, he needs to be behind bars where he'll have a cell-mate named Bubba who'll hate sick fucks like him and he'll end up dying slowly and painfully and alone in his cell being tormented by images of what he did. What an ass. Tell your daughter it's not her fault. Tell her that until she believes. The scars are permanent, but if you say something enough, she just might believe you. It's worth a shot. Writer's Response: I totally agree with 100 % of your post. My daughter doesn't like to talk about it but I have told her that it was never her fault. It's ok to be angry with him. But right now, she's still in denial, doesn't want to deal with what happened.

Send it!	6-February 2006
Send it buddy

Don't Send It!	7-March 2006
I understand how you feel frustrated by this entire situation, but there is one thing you don't realize: the fact that you are on your daughter's side and are so outraged about this has immeasurable worth to her. I have problems of this nature with my father, and no matter how loving my mother is, I know for a fact she would never believe me. Bless you for being on her side and good for you for respecting her wishes. No doubt this awful man deserves punishment, but the sad truth that no one here really realizes is that people can sometimes be horribly unsympathetic to a revelation like this. She has to have dealt a little more with it first for herself before she can reveal it to more people so that the first person who doubts or accuses her won't break her. Best of luck to you and to her.

Send it!	9-March 2006
tell the hole fukin world, woman. Now i'm only a 12 year old kid, but to imagine my kids (when i have them) goin through that pain, an nowin u cunt do nufin bout it. if ANYBODYdid that to my kid, id beat the shit out of them , then tell the whole fukin world, his family, the papers, all the solicitors. i wunt care how much shit i got in , id do anythin 2 get than man the death sentence, an i don't even beleive in death sentence! Sharon, i'm tellin u, tell EVERYDODY

Don't Send It!	18-March 2006
because even though it's horrible for you to go through and he might do it to other kids, it is your daughters fight and she will only be able to move forward in her life if she is the one who faces it. But by all means, PLEASE encourage her to talk about it to a psychologist! They cannot do anything to him unless she gives them his name and authorizes it and she needs to talk to somebody who's gotten the education in this sort of thing to know all the different ways it can be hurting her mentally and emotionally that she may not even realize yet. When people manipulate you from that young of an age, you form mental protection mechanisms that end up being harmful to your life as an adult, and the thing about it is that when you have been doing it naturally for that much of your life, often you don't even realize what you're doing to yourself. I thought therapy was stupid and that my molestation didn't have any effect on me, and I gave it a try anyway and come to find out it has had some effects on me that I didn't even realize that harm my relationships and other areas of my life. This kind of thing ALWAYS affects your relationships. If she wants to make things work with her boyfriend, she needs to get some counseling. It is not a weakness to admit you need help learning something about yourself. It's no different from talking to a trusted friend. I'm sorry if I sound preachy, but this is what I've learned from my own experience and I can't stand to watch people suffering more than they could be. She may not think things are that bad, but this stuff is frighteningly subconscious and subversive.

Send it!	19-March 2006
If he molested her when she was still a minor isn't there a way he can be charged?

Don't Send It!	19-March 2006
... if this really happened, i pity your daughter... really, i do...

Send it!	20-March 2006
Did you send the letter to him? Well, I think you should. He needs to know. If I were him and read that letter I would feel awful about myself and miserable and suicidal. and i think everybody wants him to feel that way after hearing about what he has done.

Send it!	20-March 2006
Let your daughter know that not saying anything is the same as saying what he did is ok. I have lived through the same thing. And 28 yrs later it is still haunting me and i am not sure what to do.

Send it!	20-March 2006
Send this letter!!!! You can't let that sorry excuse of a SOB get away with this! I know you love your daughter, but he is getting off easy! All he is gonna get is a slap on the hand and a don't do it again! To hell with that! I say turn him in and let the jailhouse men take care of his sorry ass!!

Send it!	20-March 2006
As far as I'm concerned it's just irresponsible NOT to bring this pedophile to light. It might be hard to confront whatever happened but it's way more important justice be done. It doesn't matter if you think it's an isolated incident, statistics show most pedophiles are not one-time offenders. They will do it again and again. Also for the "no opportunity" comment, if he wants to sexually abuse a child, he will find a way! Even just being around young children, at a day care, through church, by being a cub scout leader this should send a warning signal. Do you want some other child (or children) going through the same thing your daughter is going through right now?!

Send it!	20-March 2006
Don't keep this secret. It's too disturbing to let the shit get away with what he's done to your daughter!

Don't Send It!	21-March 2006
Shocking, have you confronted your ex-husband. He should know that what he did was disgusting! Make sure he knows you know! At least then that will vent some anger and frustration.

Send it!	21-March 2006
It doesn't really matter whether you send it or not, I don't think.... But I do think that the authorities should be told about this. Because if you don't tell someone... who knows how many other little girls he is molesting/raping..... We don't need any more girls who feel that they screwed up somehow when they were little to deserve something so horrible as a father molesting his daughter. TELL SOMEONE WHO HAS THE AUTHORITY TO MAKE IT STOP. only you can stop the cycle now. Please.

Don't Send It!	22-March 2006
I feel for your daughter- having been there myself...It is a horrid wound but atleast she finally told you. I'm 19 and still can't tell anyone who did this to me. It's scary and it pushed me to graduate highschool at 16, move out and I'm close to having my A.S. degree- I write that because once she finds her grounding- she will strive for more then most because she knows how bad life can be!I'm Buddhist but if I prayed- I would pray for you and your daughter. THANK YOU for posting this. You are right in your anger. Please take care of your daughter- who I see as a kindred spirit.

Send it!	23-March 2006
he is sooooo sick i would explain to my daughter that she has to imform the police and that if she does she can still go and see him werever he is and if she doesnt inform the police that she will never be aloud to see him again because he is a sick fuck

Send it!	25-March 2006
OMFG OMFG OMFG I am sooo sorry to hear about that. That is a horrible thing to go through. I will pray for you and your precious daughter.

Send it!	2-June 2006
DANG! My Girls were molested by their grandfather. I turned his butt in to the authorities, what a big joke that was. My daughter was three when I noticed something was wrong with her. I had been asking all along if someone had been touching her, she would always tell me no, then one day I asked her has anyone put anything inside you and she said yes, talk about goose bumps and major nausea. I asked her who and she told me it was her grandpa and I asked her what he put inside of her she said some stuff from a tube and his fingers. The only thing we could figure what he had used from a tube was oracle because the bastard had bad teeth, sad thing was I BOUGHT the jerk the stuff! Talk about a punch in the stomach. I asked her when he would touch her and she said one of the times was when he was sick and laying on the sofa, I asked her where I was at, she said in the kitchen cooking supper. Talk about an even bigger punch in the stomach. I immediately called the cops, hotlinked his ass, took her to the DR. to make a long story short, the DA here in town took 2 years to even get a deposition together. By then my Daughter was five and scared to death of being in court. So the DA didn't want to scar her anymore so she dropped the case. Well, the bastard went and moved in with a couple a two counties away and proceeded to molest their 13 yr. old daughter. He did do time on that. Got out of the pen and wound up dying from leukemia. I'm sorry that was not a painful enough death for what he has done to 6 girls total. My oldest he molested why she was still in diapers, but it still affects her to this day and she is 15. Even if it's just between you two at first try to get her to talk about it! For her sake and sanity.

Don't Send It!	7-June 2006
Keep the letter, shari, but CALL CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES IMMEDIATELY. What if this guy meets a woman that has a little girl? DO you honestly think for one minute that he will not molest another child? You need to rethink this whole, "I'll keep your secret for our daughter's sake" nonsense and do the right thing, not only for your daughter, but for all the victims you are saving from the same pain and emotional damage that your daughter suffered. I was molested by my father as a child until I was 15. I kept his secret because that's just what we did when I was growing up. Nobody talked about it, incest was an off-limits subject, and kids certainly didn't tell. 25 years later, when my father was dying, my son told me that my father molested him while he was growing up and he didn't tell me because I had told him many times not to ever be alone with Grandpa and he was afraid I would be mad. Let reality win out - once a child-molester, always a child-molester. Do the right thing for every child that nobody protected and STOP THIS MAN FROM COMMITTING FURTHER HARM TO CHILDREN. All this "she's over 18" crap you are using for your excuse does not hold water - she does not need your permission for you to expose this crime. I dare you to have the courage to call Child Protective Service's tips line(1-800-4-A-CHILD) and expose this man - if she told you about the crime, you have all the grounds they need to question this man.

Send it!	31-July 2007
I'm Shari 65... Have to tell you again, It's my daughter that wants to keep this secret and not me. I wish she would say something.. she is 20 years old now. I cannot do anything legally. She doesn't want her father to know that anyone else knows about this... What the hell am I supposed to say to child protective services.

Don't Send It!	4-March 2008
You should talk to your daughter about it and try to get her to tell. She might want you too but yet she doesn't want to get him into trouble. When I was young I was rape and mollested many times by a few brothers that lived 2 doors down from us. They tried it with my sister, but I wouldn't let them. I was young, but I knew she didn't like it. I didn't like it. I hated it. But they threatened so many things, plus I didn't exactly know what was going on. When my parents found out they grounded me until they found out a little more. I was scared to tell them everything. They still don't know what all happened. They probably think it was something that happened once and not a lot of stuff happened then. I wish they would have handled it better and told someone about it. They kicked the bastards out of our yard. We weren't allowed to tell anyone. Only their Mom was told. They still live 2 doors down from me. I'm almost 18. I have to see them every day. I think about it every day. I didn't trust guys for a long time. My brother doesn't even really know, and he became friends with them. I came home from work one night and one of the brothers was in my living room with my brother. They all hung out for a few months until he realized how big of jerks they are. Know what? He called me a pussy for not talking to them and told me I was being a bitch for hating them and "not forgiving them for whatever you guys got into a fight about" yeah, he doesn't even know the half of it. I'm just saying that something should be done and he could just keep hurting others. Your daughter may feel better about it if he's been dealt with legally.