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Details: to a once good friend |
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By
Tryst
Category: Family Quarrels
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it all has to do with that stupid drama and sheer idiotic denial.....
im sorry for caring about you enough to try and help. i never seem to do it right, now do i? yet you still fault me for it.
ive tried so hard to pull the blinders off your eyes. ive gotten hurt in the process every time.
why is it that some days you are such a good friend, someone to laugh with and just hang out? but other days you're cruel and you only want to take every problem out on me. one slip of the tongue and ill suffer whiplash from verbal assault. every problem you have in your life is always, suddenly, my fault.
it hurts and i cant stand it anymore. im tired, in head and heart, of dealing with it. day in, day out, simply IGNORING it. i vent to some people, but they don't help much. they're immature and don't look past the fact that you're beautiful and im not.
im so done with ignoring it, but what else am i supposed to do?
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27-March 2006 |
| I had a similar situation. Is there something underneath fueling the mood swings?-drugs/alcohol/ unresolved issues etc. Honestly- do whats best for you, and don't indulge her behaviour by putting up with it. If you are always there, ofcourse she's gonna keep lashing out at the closest thing.Sooner or later she'll have to stop living in denial. Only when she decides for herself to change, and realises she doesn't like what she's become, can she start to see clearly.'friendship' isn't about having that weight on you. Maybe she can't see how lucky she is that you genuinely care.Be supportive but don't let yourself be treated like crap, it doesn't do either of you any good. It might be the best thing you could do for her, to completely let her go, till she comes back to you. I know it's painful to see someone you love acting this way,but sometimes ppl have to get to their lowest point in order for them to be able to turn around. All you can do is pray & leave it in God's hands, and don't worry.
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